“When other people know of this identity goal we are chasing, we often substitute actually doing work towards that goal with the intent of doing that work.”
I wish I had less free time. I’m always more motivated to use the precious time I have when I have less of it.
Projects feel like working for a Marvel movie. I love when it’s done and I can finally share. Sharing afterwards does motivate me. “I bought a ukulele!”, not “I’m going to buy a ukulele”. Know yourself.
Something to try if that resonates with you.
Even in the super secret world of Marvel films, there’s are accountability partners. In the wide world, the films are announced at a point. Work goes on. Discuss those Specific, Measurable, Agreed Upon, Realistic, and Time-Based goals with people who enjoy position of keeping us in check. (<3 SMART goals)
Bassam Tarazi breaks down what the research is and isn’t saying in: CSI: TED Talks – What Derek Sivers Was Really Saying
Richard Wiseman, a psychologist at the University of Hertfordshire 'gave both the “lucky” and the “unlucky” people a newspaper and asked them to look through it and tell him how many photographs were inside. He found that on average the unlucky people took two minutes to count all the photographs, whereas the lucky ones determined the number in a few seconds.' 'How could the “lucky” people do this? Because they found a message on the second page that read, “Stop counting. There are 43 photographs in this newspaper.” So why didn’t the unlucky people see it? Because they were so ... Read more
Enjoyed hearing about Personality Quizzes on Gretchen Rubin's Happier podcast. The quizzes serve as tools for positive self-reflection. So true that they don't define us, they're just a small window into certain sides of us. Just took the Enneagram. I scored high in 4 types and all ring true: Type 1. Reformer – Perfectionists are realistic, conscientious, and principled. They strive to live up to their high ideals. Type 5. Thinker – Observers have a need for knowledge and are introverted, curious, analytical, and insightful. Type 7. Enthusiast – Adventurers are energetic, lively, and optimistic. They want to contribute to the ... Read more