“People do things and an obliger is shocked and appalled by something someone else does. And everyone else thinks it’s fine.” Gretchen Rubin

“People do things and an obliger is shocked and appalled by something someone else does. And everyone else thinks it’s fine.”

“An obliger is like: If you can’t be a citizen of humanity and wash out your own dish, you’re a thoughtless and soulless barbarian.”

“Questioners are like: It’s not efficient.”

“An upholder is like: It’s not my job.”

“A rebel is like: I don’t feel like it.”

“An obliger thinks really it’s powerfully wrong.”

Source: Before Breakfast – Reach out to someone you admire | Listen via Stitcher for Podcasts

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“It’s not that I’m right and they're wrong. Or they’re right and I’m wrong. It’s just that we have different ways of approaching things.” Gretchen Rubin

“It’s not that I’m right and they're wrong. Or they’re right and I’m wrong. It’s just that we have different ways of approaching things.” “You’re not doing this TO me, you’re like this with everybody in your life. I don’t have to be angry about it. I can just try to figure out a situation where both of us can thrive.” Source: Happier with Gretchen Rubin - Bonus Episode: A Deep Dive into the “Four Tendencies” Personality Framework | Listen via Stitcher for Podcasts

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“This is the essence of a huge vast study: Happiness is love. The key to finding love is having a coping style that doesn’t push love away. Every single one of us needs help with that. We all push love away. The grand task of life is to know how we push love away and to mature beyond that.”

“This is the essence of a huge vast study: Happiness is love. “The key to finding love is having a coping style that doesn’t push love away. “Every single one of us needs help with that. We all push love away. “The grand task of life is to know how we push love away and to mature beyond that.” Source: Deeper Dating - What's The Most Important Personality Trait For A Happy, Fulfilled Life? [E037] | Listen via Stitcher for Podcasts

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