I’ve written my Happiness Manifesto inspired by Gretchen Rubin. A manifesto is a public declaration of intentions and values.
- If all else fails, let go a little.
Or a lot.
- I love that we all get to exist.
- Different people like different things.
- Effort over outcomes.
Show up for yourself.
- There’s always many factors
- Win-win or no deal, and that’s okay!
- Listen. Notice what right.
- Say good things out loud
- Mistakes are neutral at worst, helpful at best.
- Don’t sweat the small stuff (It’s all Small Stuff)
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Contributed to the Kickstarter for the card game Pretending to Grownup! Sure when we’re feeling mature we just notice, make a decision, and move on. However! Have fun annoying the group of people who “worry” about our generation. Because gasp we’re doing things differently than how they did it. That’s really way more of a problem. I prefer my empathy paired with a bit of “Yeah now suck it up and do it.” Are you technically a grownup but don't feel like it? Pretending to Grownup is a casual card game with 100 unique cards featuring common grownup situations. ... Read more